Solo Camping

I've always wanted to go solo camp but never mustered the grit. Being alone bothered me. A while back, I was thrusted into an opportunity, and I discovered that solo camping does not mean that I am alone.

I was excited that the annual Texas Avid Outdoor Expo would be held again. It's traditionally held in the Hills of Llano County. Camping in the Hill Country is alluring and peaceful. Among the Expo attendees were like-minded adventurers who built and showcased self-reliant vehicles for camping and exploring the world. This was my GAME!  

But a week before the event, my wife opted out, and days later, my teenage son as well. Not for any significant reason, but just to stay home.  I started to second-guess whether to go or to stay with them. Worse, I began making excuses NOT to go, such as,  "I have too much work at the office," "The weather was gonna be rainy and stormy," heck, I even said, "I'm gonna be lonely!" "What was going on with me?" I thought.  We always went camping as a family.  Did I get my feelings hurt?

The day before the event, I noticed that the weather was improving, and I was running out of excuses.  So, I decided to go instead of staying home with those who quash tradition.  Packing my gear and gassing up the steel horse I ride took a different type of sentiment.  

Solo camping eliminated my family's presence and participation. This was my first solo camp ever. 

The drive was a little over an hour and my anxieties about being alone dissipated as I drove on the property. My attitude adjusted as soon as I was off the beaten path onto that which was familiar.  With dirt on my tread and in between my toes, I approached the Expo registration table.  I recognized a familiar face from 3 years ago; his name was Laud.  We immediately started talking about past experiences at the Expo and camping.  Laud welcomed me back and gave me directions for the weekend.  I drove around the various camps, and familiarity with why I was in camp came into perspective.  I found the perfect spot to set up base camp and commenced duties for comfort. 

Ahh, I was camping alone!  But not really.   

Today, I know a certain amount of anxiety is associated with solo camping.  I can't quite pinpoint the reason for this.  However, lowering those anxieties requires other outdoor enthusiasts, preparation, and familiar faces. In it, solo camping does not mean that I am alone.

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